I heard this story of a married couple. Married for seven years, two kids. The man had been cheating on his wife through out their married years...not with one woman at a time, but with several...she knew of his infidelities, sometimes he wasn't discreet...all their friends and family also knew about his extra marital affairs. So many times, this lady walked out of the marriage with her two kids...she couldn't deal with all the pain, and every time she left her matrimonial home, friends and family and even her husband begged her to return home.
For seven years, she watched her husband move from one woman to another, spend money and time with them and even had a few serious relationships in between...you know the kind of relationship where the guy travels and goes everywhere with the girlfriend instead of the wife?
Well some months back the husband did something that killed this woman's soul. She caught him getting a blow job from someone on the same street they live at...she caught them in their own home...in the living room.
After the girl left, the woman told her husband that she will make him feel just a little of the pain he had put her through for seven years...just a little taste of his own medicine.
That weekend, she packed a few things and left home. The husband thinking she needed some space or wanted to go stay with a friend, didn't ask where she was going.
She came back on Sunday night and said nothing to her husband. The following day, her husband came back from work and found his wife in bed with their neighbour, a single guy who lived in the flat above theirs...the woman knew when her husband usually came home and fixed the sexual escapade around that time. She wanted her husband to catch her in bed with another man.
The husband almost died when he walked into his bedroom, but the woman was not through with him, she told him that she had spent that weekend in a hotel and for each night she was there, she'd invited three of his friends. She had told them she needed to talk and when they came, she seduced and had sex with all three guys...her husbands friends...and it was no fabrication, she really did do it.
Naturally, the marriage ended...the man threw her things out of the house and she gladly went, happy that she did what she did.
When I heard this story and saw the woman, I almost supported what she did...but then I thought about it again...two wrongs can't make a right can it? She shouldn't have stooped to his level, but some people said she's justified and some men deserve to know what it feels like to be cheated on...but I'm thinking, what about the children? What do you say to them when they are grown? What she did was wrong, right? She should have just walked away instead of trying to pay her husband back in his own coin, right?
Someone told me that the most common reason women cheat is because their men cheat on them, so they try to balance the equation...hurt back the way they've been hurt
But is this necessary, to avenge cheating? Who has an opinion about this?
PMAN president, Tee Mac, has finally launched his long awaited album titled 'Just like a dream', he did that on August 31st at the Civic Centre. All you Tee Mac fans, his album is now in stores!
Kenny Saint Brown is also set to release a single titled 'Sugar Sugar', what a name...but they say the song is really nice. We'll see!
Comedian, Tee A, is set to host another edition of his annual Live N Naked comedy show on the 30th of September 2007, at the Congress Hall of Transcorp Hilton Hotel. Knowing him, it's bound to be a great show.
They say Nollywood actress, Chiege Alisigwe is four months pregnant and recently married her second husband in the UK...I hope this is true, her first marriage, according to her, was a disaster. I hope this one works out for her.
D Banj just got appointed as the United Nations Youth Ambassador for peace, making him Nigeria's second UN youth Ambassador, after Tuface Idibia. He will be decorated on October 12th, 2007. At 27, D banj is doing so well for himself. I'm very proud of him! Congrats to him!
Idol WA winner, Timi, has been offered a scholarship by the Delta State Government, to pick any University of his choice, in any part of the world to study. If I were him, I'd pick Harvard University...I hope you see this Timi, pick Harvard....at least follow chop government money small lol!
I just heard this really sad news that ace comedian Basorge Tariah Jr is presently in the Lagos University Teaching Hospital, LUTH, where he's receiving treatment for an ailment known in medical terms as DVT, Deep Vein Thrombosis, a kind of blood clot in the legs. They said he's lucky to have tackled it on time as it is a deadly disease. They said the ailment is usually caused by excessive sitting and lack of physical exercise. I hope he gets better soon.
That's all for now folks...see you tomorrow! Wink!