Linda,Read her message after the cut..
How do i begin to say thank you! You dont know me from adam and you and your lovely readers have contributed immensely to my healing process. I pray God in his infinite mercies give you all that your heart desires. I have a little thank you message for your readers..
Dear All,
I am so emotional right now , i dont even know how to start!
From the bottom of my heart, i want to say a big thank you to you all. It feels like i have shared my story with family already!
I have read all your comments and right now , i feel a kind of strength from within that i cannot explain. I have thought about the situation over and over again and in coming to a conclusion, i asked my self 3 questions (1) Can i ever trust this man again? (2) Am i ready to live with the fact that my husband cheated on me to bring his first child into the world? (3) Am i ready to accept a strange woman and her step child as part of my family for the rest of my life? The Answer to these 3 questions is NO. Therefore , i have made up my mind to cancel the wedding to secure my eternal happiness.
I have also made up my mind to call my parents this weekend and inform them of the situation and i am sure they would agree with my decision as they want nothing but the best for me .I have also decided to give my dress and all other things i bought in preparation for the wedding to charity.
I am 28 years old, i have a fantastic job, i am in the middle of my PHD programme and above all a good Christian. I will continue to stay focused and also be prayerful and i know that the good lord that i serve and sees my heart will bring a man that deserves me my way.
Again, thank you all. I pray the good lord continue to bless, guide and protect you all. Amen
PS: Linda, God bless and protect you and may all you lay your hands upon prosper.
Amen. God bless you too and Good luck with everything.
